OK So here we are, a week ago I promised a new post, and here it is, I hope you find it useful!
If you didn’t read my post last week, you can click here to read it. Today I want to talk about how to manage failure and success in a way to extract the best from each situation.
In my experience, to evolve, it is important to learn from both situations. In the same way that success is the direct result of something having been done in the correct way, failure truly exposes the mistakes and errors that prevented success. However, it is really important to know that if we can learn to accept and to deal with failure we can evolve very quickly, and we may even be able to fully realize the opportunities that arise in these moments.
In my case, there has been no significant project that I have started which did not cause me fear! Some of them in fact, really frightened me… but I succeeded in this very way, filled with fear! I may laugh now as I write this article but in the moments that I needed to act, this fear could be so strong that would freeze me… sometimes it would even prevent me from taking any action… It takes a lot of courage and strength to overcome this fear and overcoming it unleashes a tremendous force enabling us to achieve greatness.
The turning point is not failure… but rather, it is in the ability to manage fear of failure, fear of the expectations (yours and from others), fear of the idea we may have of success and even of the idea/image others may have of us…
As we have seen before, failure can open up amazing opportunity windows and it can help us to surpass our own difficulties and limitations… But if this is so, what prevents us from achieving what seem to us as great ideas? What makes us miss fantastic opportunities? Or even prevents us from achieving a dream or desire?
I would say that in 90% of the cases it is this darned fear!
I believe that we need to debate and talk about fear itself, and we will do this soon, maybe on a post about emotions and how they can impact our actions and decisions…
Anyway, what I want to finish up and share with you here is that what matters most to have the life of a successful entrepreneur is to define success. What is success for you? Clearly this will be unique for each person. For some it may mean something financial while for others it may be the number of people helped by the project. For yet another it may be having a good home and a car, while another may define success as being able to have a philanthropic project and a foundation.
For each one of us there may be a unique definition of success, infinite definitions!
Another aspect is to deal with fear. Fear of failure… failure is natural, it happens to everyone, if it is not happening right now, it will in an instant… An important step to learning to manage this fear is to realize that for every failure there will be a new opportunity arising. More… a failure may reveal within a new capability to allow you to fly even higher!
Winston Churchill said: “Success is going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm”, I absolutely agree with him on this point!
Finally I would say that you need to develop your courage! This attitude will definitely help you to face all your fears.
Do it! Accept the risks of success, for just as it can go glaringly wrong, it may also be an astounding success…
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